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Comment on Learning humility, again and again. by Wheeler Van Brocklin

Wheeler Van Brocklin — Wed, 06 Mar 2013 13:07:07 +0000

Know that I am not caring for a loved-one with dementia, nor have I, ever done so.
What you describe is yet another “phase” (for lack of a better word) of what we called: “choosing one’s battles” or prioritizing one’s principles. We do it ac spouses/partners, as friends and/or acquaintances as parents and as participants in various communities.
What you illustrate, ever so eloquently, I might add, is the process of examining/re-examining one’s priorities in the light of those of others. It is a marvelous and rewarding process; a gift to either/both parties in any given situation. As ever, THANK YOU for sharing!–W

Comment on Learning humility, again and again. by Wheeler Van Brocklin

Wheeler Van Brocklin — Wed, 06 Mar 2013 12:56:15 +0000

I don’t know how or why this happen with some of your posts (case-in-point: THIS ONE); I was instantaneously drawn in in full “empathy mode”. You, my dear, have a wonderful gift. Godspeed–W

Comment on Learning humility, again and again. by mandyabq

mandyabq — Wed, 06 Mar 2013 05:28:44 +0000

We none of us ever stop learning…..

Comment on Sweet moments by Erica Robinson-Johnson

Erica Robinson-Johnson — Mon, 04 Mar 2013 14:21:58 +0000

To discover the gift in the midst of pain, confusion, even grief…that’s a gift from God. Thanks for sharing your wonderful way of seeing the world and never missing the gift in the moment.

Comment on Sweet moments by Wheeler Van Brocklin

Wheeler Van Brocklin — Mon, 04 Mar 2013 12:03:30 +0000

I have no parents and no one in my life, until recently, who was suffering from dementia with whom I regularly interact. I have spoken with many who do as well as with professional care-givers.

Cynthia, your post paints a picture of what CAN BE such a trial/nightmare in such gently moving terms that I was struck (HARD).

Firstly, thank you for sharing. I believe that what you’ve shared (AND THE WAY IN WHICH YOU SHARED IT) could be such a gift to folks in your position; witnesses and caregivers to loved-ones in decline via Alzheimers (or other dementia). I would ask that if you are able to share this with your clergy contacts that they might reprint and/or distribute it to others in similar situations. This could “lighten their loads” (meaning, of course, the care-givers/loved-ones) as well as their hearts.

This reminds me of when and how I was drawn to your “Caring Bridge” posts.
Thank you again
Godspeed
-W-

Comment on Sweet moments by Mandy Arrington

Mandy Arrington — Mon, 04 Mar 2013 02:27:37 +0000

Amen, getting to be in the circle and knowing it is truly the gift.

Comment on The Calm by Jane Emmons

Jane Emmons — Tue, 30 Oct 2012 14:58:21 +0000

After my cancer a pastor friend said something about how I would “embroider this into my life.’ She is not a needlewoman, but the comment reminded me of Hester in The Scarlet Letter, who converted her brand of shame into a flag of bravery and concern for others. You might want to read the final chapters of the book yourself. Blessings on your “embroidery” and other Artwork!

Comment on Settling into this one precious life by Mandy Arrington

Mandy Arrington — Thu, 25 Oct 2012 12:47:40 +0000

thank you God

Comment on Lessons from Ghost Ranch – morning walk 2 by Mandy Arrington

Mandy Arrington — Wed, 24 Oct 2012 15:03:44 +0000

You are a true blessing.

Comment on Happy! by wheeler "Wheels"Van Brocklin

wheeler "Wheels"Van Brocklin — Wed, 26 Sep 2012 12:57:21 +0000

SOunds like: ‘happy about feeling happy to me, C. More power to ya! Makes ME happy to read your happy words, Tx!

Funny, I have never considered Autumn a “busy” time and yet when I read your words, and consider today and the yesterdays left behind me, I concede the truth of the observation. I’m now “retired” our kids (25 & 23) aren’t a source of the busy that they once were (praise Heaven; don’t think man(woman)-kind was built to hold up to THAT kinda busy forever, that’s fer shur!). My bride, Patty and I have THREE MAJOR projects before us all requiring the cooperation of the weather and all necessary (having been procrastinated away until they reached “criticality”!) I enjoy a challenge buit THREE with the weather closing? OIE!
Best wishes always…